Not sure if anybody wants to discuss hotties, but hello sure does.
OK, for the last 7 years, or so, I've been in love with me best friend. I'm now starting to get over her, but I've replaced a tough-love with an even tougher-love: one of me mate's hottie.
She's an amazing girl, if a little bit annoying. I think if I met somebody else I'd get over her pretty quickly, so I'm not gonna be telling my mate anytime soon, but right now it's pissing me right off.
Am I a glutton for punishment? Yes.
Does hello need a girlfriend? Yes.
Advice would be appreciated :)

Hotties, you need to stay away from them. They go through about six boyfriends a week and they make sure you're not one of them. It's totally not fair :angry:

Why am I not suprised that you're always at the other end of the 'hottie' spectrum? :P

I actually have a few girls lined up for sex eventually, but seeing as though I'm temporarily living 2 states away from them, it's a tad difficult. When I move back though, hopefully, among other things, I'll get oevr my current 'love' and find someone truly worth loving.

If this makes sense, right now I pretty much hate the person I love. :(

jesus christ little man.

you have the tact of a bleeding hemaroid don't ya. A few girls lined up for sex?? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA.. do they know this? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

I certainly hope you dont let them know that you consider them 'lined up for sex', or you might find yourself with a high heel in the eye (I am of course presuming they are old enough to handle high heels).

And from memory, the girl you are/were keen on is 13 years old isnt she?




Hello - Dont go there man, thats a tragedy waiting to happen. and if you are coming for a beer tonight, stay the hell away from my woman :P

:lol: Nice one Denno.

Hello - I can kinda sympathise with you, but I can't give you any advice. The problem is it's something I think most should go through and figure out on their own, so you're better off for the future. Besides, even if I did offer advice, would it really make you feel any different?

Moggo - I don't need to make a punchline. You made the joke work by yourself. Well done.

All I can say is careful with 'hotties'. A large number (but certainly not all) may look nice, but can be vile-hearted, and certainly not emotionally worth it. Approach with caution.

Heheh, I was pretty much going to say the same thing.

It's such a casual statement too, "yeah, I got some bitches waiting for me when I get back home. They're hung up in my closet next to my pool ponies".

:lol:

heh. That's an excellent attitude for keeping your virginity.




hello, I stress the obvious you already know. Chasing girls that you'll never be with causes a fair bit of pain. Try not let yourself get infatuated with one single girl, try make friends with many.

A slut is a girl who sleeps with everybody
A bitch is a girl who sleeps with everybody except you

Just thought I'd share that with ya'll :D

yeah - I have major girl problems at the moment. I have a girlfriend who lives in Adelaide. I live in Melbourne - we physically see each other like once a month. I know she really likes me, but personally I think it's fucked and we are wasting our time... But I guess I care for her too much to say anything. I dunno - it's fucked anyway.

Eyyy!

One of my best friends also happens to be the girl I like. Doesn't that kick arse in a kind of crappy way. :P
Going by hello's experience only 6 and a bit years of it to go!

Ugh, Flick. I've liked this chick, pretty much on and off for 6 months. I don't understand it. She's so hot, but Woody seems to think she's annoying as hell. I find it really cute. I just want to put my arms around her and....ugh.

I can't get my head around this chick. Woman. God[ess].


I've tried like, everything. It doesn't work, she's just not interested. I don't understand it :(


*shakes head and walks off into sunset*.

Man, whod've thought a fucking godess could possibly think she's too good for you?

Hotties are either concieted or air-headed. The former because they're also intelligent, the latter because they don't need to be. The prime level of hotness is just a rung or two below that of the hottie (The 7/10 - 9/10 range). Here, girls are just unattractive enough so that they can't be concieted or completely devoid of cranial activity. More importantly, they also suffer 'second place' syndrome; they end up feeling bad about their appearance because they've climbed so high only to find that they can't quite reach the top. Lastly, (comparatively) noone goes for these girls. Guys are too busy chasing the best tail they can find, that they don't realise that their chances increase dramatically by lowering their standards just slightly.

This should all be taken with a grain of salt, since I'm still shaking my fist at my lack of relationships.

What happened to "hello" girl, Syt? I'm sure you told me, but I've long since forgotten what you said. Aren't you at Uni now? You should be hooking in, HOOKING IN I SAY!!

My best friend is pretty hot, but she doesn't have the best personality, so it's kind of a turn off.

Did hyper meet go ahead? Damn it!!!!! :angry: I thought she was cancelled...oh well, next time.

Sytadel, I've lowered my standards plenty. But it's bloody hard to find a hottie once you've left high school. So, you go for the 1st one that shows a bit of interest in you. With my mates girl I spoke to her at a party for like friggin' ages, and we just had a really good time + she always asks me how I am and shit.
I'm sure if somebody else showed me the same amount attention I'd "latch" onto them too :)

IRS, I'm just far too picky to go for many hotties. Many girls are annoying, most do not have the same interests that you have, and there's very few that you'll automatically "click" with.

Um, relationships are probably the least likely thing you have a chance of working out logically/mathematically.

But at least you said to take it with a grain of salt.

Oh, and its conceited.*

...*sorry. Yes, I am a spelling nazi...

"Hello" girl? Huh?

Yeah, I should be hooking in, but you know.

Really? My Uni has much more than my High School. I mean, it's not like hot girls just drop dead once they turn 17.

I'd have to agree with Syt here, the hot girl density ratio at university compared to high school is much higher. Not that looks should be important of course ^_^

Hello, well i don't see anything wrong with dating her if you are genuinely interested in her (not just looks wise) but if you only want to date her because you think you wont get anyone better (or because she's only hot etc) then no. It won't work out otherwise if you don't have that initial spark.

I'm sure in time you will find a suitable girl. :)

That is all.

You must have preeetty crap friends...

>___>

You don't think that there is a connection between your first paragraph and your second paragraph do you?



I guess the best first move to getting a girlfriend (or any friends) is to treat people nicely and not to make assumptions about people on the basis of their looks. That whole "don't judge a book by it's cover" turns out there's actually some truth in it.

I hate the word 'hottie', it's such a diminishing term. As if anyone deserves to be summed up in one word based on their appearance. Making links between physical appearance and any facet of someone's personality is an exercise fraught with danger.

Of course, I guarantee I've had a lot less success with relationships than the ever-so-tactful Moggo, and pretty much everyone else, to be honest. But at least I have never judged anyone on a superficial basis.

By hotties I didn't mean that they had to be good looking - it's just what I call girls, 'cause hello's cool B)

There's plenty of girls, but the chance of "hooking in", at Uni, is far less than at high school - from my experience. Everybody, at Uni, has 2 different lives: Uni life, and life outside of Uni. With school the majority have 1 life: school. So, at high school you pretty much know where everybody's coming from, if they like you etc., but at Uni you have no idea whatsoever. Ie., you'll be talking to some girl and then they'll say, "I'm going to the beach with my boyfriend on the weekend". Maybe it's just me, but it's friggin' hard to key up a relationship at Uni.

Hello refers to himself in the third person, he must be cool! B) :P

Finding girls in your class/es is the easiest way I'd say. How about...

HELLO- "Hey, have you got a pen I could borrow?"
GIRL- "Yep, here you go" *gives pen*
HELLO- "And a piece of paper?"
GIRL- "Sure, take this" *gives piece of paper*
HELLO- "Cool...now can I have your number?
GIRL- "Ok!" :D *gives number*

*may not work, TJO doesn't have a girlfriend either. =P

Well I have the same problem with males - usually the really good looking ones are devoid of a personality, completely conceited, or 'players' which really makes me lose interest quickly. I normally am more attracted to personality than looks though. Generally, if someone has a great pesonality that I find attractive, they become more physically attractive in my eyes.

I think male 'hotties' are okay to hook up with occasionally and muck around with, but they generally make pretty sucky boyfriends. Somone's personality is always the most important factor in a relationship.

Basically, I'd reccomend keeping open to all females - not just the 8s, 9s or 10s :P You'll find that once you really begin to know somebody, you'll find them more attractive than what you did initially. Or vice versa :P

And if that don't work, try knocking back a dozen beers.

You must think I'm quite a dipshit if you think I haven't made that connection already.

You must also think I'm really bad with relationships if you took my little post completely seriously. I was just throwing stereotypes around, healthy stereotypes. They're conciously held, they're first best guesses, and they're open to change. That makes them a-okay. By the way, If it's any consilation, I have made new friends at Uni. It's just the whole step up to intimacy that I have trouble with, ya know?

I'm not attacking you dude. In my experience first impressions are always wrong and you can never tell anything about a person soley on the basis of their looks (except perhaps whether they're good looking or not)... but maybe I'm just a bad judge of character.

I don't know Syt, you tell me how you are with relationships. The attidute in your last post was verging on sexism and most girls I know don't go for that. Of course I have no indication of knowing how serious you are and I can only idealistically assume you're telling the truth. If you want to make stuff up or joke around obviously my comments are meaningless.

...hey baby B)
I get annoyed with people who stare at themselves in the mirror 24/7. I'm not looking for a hottie, just someone who I can talk to and have a bit of fun with. I've only ever gone out with one out-and-out hottie. My other girlfriends have looked pretty special to me, but not really to anybody else. I'm with you; looks are one thing, but personality's a whole different ball game.

TrinityJayOne, talking in 1st person is cool. Period. :P